Post by Brendan on Jan 20, 2010 20:17:14 GMT -8
So in case someone other than me didn't notice (I'm sure I'm the only one.... 
) In the Mission: Gap diagram, the woman never actually stops at the Gap... I lol'd so hard when I realized it...
Anyway, on the original post. As with all things the key is moderation. If you tell someone to go be an asshole to get laid, assuming he listens like a good little sheep, he will get the crap kicked out of him. Assuming, again, that he SUCCEEDS in being an asshole. See, it isn't being an asshole, it's establishing dominance. Before anyone jumps my shit, I am NOT saying man is top dog over woman, but a man needs to show he's strong enough and powerful enough to care for a woman. Yes, assholes have a bit of strength in them, but they have many other negative characteristics.
What the 50 year old virgins need to realize is that what they need is confidence. Now, that doesn't mean ACT confident. As soon as she spends 30 minutes with you, she'll realize a sham is a sham and you're in *GASSSPP* The Friend Zone! It means go get some counciling, go to a confidence coach, go GET CONFIDENT. Not for some pretty girl, but for YOURSELF. Once you honestly stop caring about whether or not you get a girlfriend, the perfect one will fall in to your lap.
And to all the guys in the thread (including myself) you REALLY shouldn't be adressing this issue in public. It's a bad plan...
) In the Mission: Gap diagram, the woman never actually stops at the Gap... I lol'd so hard when I realized it...Anyway, on the original post. As with all things the key is moderation. If you tell someone to go be an asshole to get laid, assuming he listens like a good little sheep, he will get the crap kicked out of him. Assuming, again, that he SUCCEEDS in being an asshole. See, it isn't being an asshole, it's establishing dominance. Before anyone jumps my shit, I am NOT saying man is top dog over woman, but a man needs to show he's strong enough and powerful enough to care for a woman. Yes, assholes have a bit of strength in them, but they have many other negative characteristics.
What the 50 year old virgins need to realize is that what they need is confidence. Now, that doesn't mean ACT confident. As soon as she spends 30 minutes with you, she'll realize a sham is a sham and you're in *GASSSPP* The Friend Zone! It means go get some counciling, go to a confidence coach, go GET CONFIDENT. Not for some pretty girl, but for YOURSELF. Once you honestly stop caring about whether or not you get a girlfriend, the perfect one will fall in to your lap.
And to all the guys in the thread (including myself) you REALLY shouldn't be adressing this issue in public. It's a bad plan...